Four Ways to Spice Up Your Marriage

No relationship is a picnic all the time, and many of us start to feel a little slump as our relationship begins to age. With so much to do, it’s hard to make time for the person closest to us, and soon enough many start to feel the flame fizzling. A good relationship takes work and sometimes even sacrifice, and anything worth keeping is worth investing time into.

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  • Forgive And Start Over
Sometimes people lose touch over the years, and sometimes relationships grow strained. If you’ve been holding something against your husband or wife, do the best that you can to forgive and start healing. You can't spice things up before you get over any resentment you have in your relationship.

  • Dress To Impress
Why not propose a dress-up date night, and go all out for one another? In the beginning of a relationship, we always try to put our best foot forward, but sometimes we let that effort slip. Your spouse is attracted to you no matter what you wear, but of course he or she is likely going to be wowed by a hot outfit instead of sweatpants. Showing one another that you are each still worth the effort is a great way to breathe life back into a deflated marriage.

  • Do Something Fun Together
This seems like a no-brainer, but it's amazing how many couples spend every weekend vegging out in front of the television. It’s quite possible that you’ve both forgotten just what made you fall in love in the first place. By making your relationship a priority again, you’ll allow yourself to see the qualities in your mate that you love and cherish. Take a dance class, or learn to ski together. Do something new and adventurous, just the two of you, and see if you can’t ignite a flame in your relationship.

  • Do Something Nice For Your Partner Unexpectedly
You know yourself and your own relationship better than anyone else, and the probability is that you’re likely to know a fair amount about your spouse, too. Take a moment to brainstorm a few really special gifts or treats that you could splurge on to show your significant other how much you care. Maybe she’s always wanted to spend a romantic night at a hotel, getting couples massages and eating fancy food. Maybe he has often lamented that he never bought that old motorcycle he was considering, and it would be really special to present him with a set of riding lessons to inspire him to do it now. Don't wait until a normal gift-giving holiday. Do it unexpectedly for no reason!

Marriage is a delicate balance, and it requires two dedicated parties to survive. By being honest, communicative and thoughtful, you may find that your relationship is virtuous and worth saving.

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8 Respones to "Four Ways to Spice Up Your Marriage"

Belle said...

Useful tips :-)

November 1, 2011 at 9:54 AM
Herbert said...

It is Belle :) .. You will learn a lot out of this when you are getting married

November 2, 2011 at 12:41 AM
Michael Hellickson said...

I completely agree with "Do Something Fun Together" it makes things amazing and let you experience different things too. It gives you also lots of fun memory which keeps you stronger together.

November 2, 2011 at 2:35 AM
Herbert said...

@Michael: I totally agree with you sir :)

November 6, 2011 at 5:19 AM
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Surprising gifts always enhance love.Give a confidence to the spouse and always love her more than her expectation.

November 12, 2011 at 2:08 PM
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Nice ways to spice up your marriage.Thanks for such information.

November 14, 2011 at 10:31 PM
Ear Tunnels said...

It happens in every relationship that after some time we start feeling dullness or boaringnes so its always important to spice up the relations we have by these wonderful ideas.

November 29, 2011 at 1:29 AM
Miles said...

Excellent tips! Marriage does need to be spiced up once in a while to keep the relationship stronger. :)

January 6, 2012 at 6:05 AM

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